Hope Day #2!! · March 31, 2008

So after I wrote last night- things continued to go amazingly well!! We orderedHope room service for dinner- with no clue what to get her- so we ordered two kinds of fried rice- thinking it would be a safe bet! She loved it- and ate alot- that was on top of the box of cookies, two bottles, and bowl of honey nut cheerios that she had eaten- so we are off to a good start for eating! The best part of the day was hearing her squeal with laughter as we chased her around the room- getting her and tickling her- she has the most adorable laugh that I have ever heard! She has a million expressions, and as the layers begin to shed..we are seeing so much more of her silly personality! Her favorite part of last night was the tub! As soon as I started running it, she began ripping her clothes off! She and Hannah had a tub together and were in there for about 40 minutes! Darrin sat in the bathroom- we want to get her as used to her Baba(daddy) as possible and this was a big ice breaker for them! I had this mousse baby soap that Darrin would squirt on her hands- she would rub her hands together and wash her cheeks then up and down her arms, then she would do Hannah's face and arms- she is such a riot!

After her bath- she insisted that she put her own pj's on- yes, this 2 year old can dress herself! Which makes me a little sad- b/c I am sure she's had to learn how, but it is quite funny to watch! She also can zip her jacket up! (Charlie- your sister is gonna teach you a thing or two!) She also loved when I rubbed her lotion on- she made me do it again and again- I don't think that she has ever had it before- and probably not loved like that. I really rubbed her little feet and hands too- since I am sure that they have not gotten alot of attention- she loved that- mostly her feet!

As far as the condition of everything- she looks fantastic! her hands are what we expected- and they do not hold her back one bit! I don't know if she will need much (if anything) done with them! Her feet we had not seen before- so they were a little more surprising. They are so tiny- none of our shoes fit her- they are just as cute as you can get- but they will definitely need some surgery. Her right foot has a complete seperate big toe, part of a second toe, and then the rest are webbed- but I think that the bones underneath are seperated which is great- b/c it wouldn't be a big surgery. Her little left foot has complete webbing across- consequently- she turns it in and balances by walking on her tip toe (which we knew from her video). I don't know how they will address this- but we will cross that bridge when we get to it! She is a fast little sucker though- and probably runs around more than most of the children here!  The other little surprise was that it looks like her beautiful teeth have never seen a toothbrush- poor darling. Most of the kids have the same situation here. She has great teeth- but they have some decay- and I have brushed them like the dickens..thank God she was adopted into the right family!! Grandpa, Uncle Don and Dr. Tom- get ready- your most beautiful little patient will need some attention!! These are just her baby teeth- so we aren't really concerned! When she does smile though- your heart melts- it is the most gorgeous smile- with two deep dimples on either side of her chubby cheeks!! Amazing little girl!

Ok- on to today...(sorry for the novel!)we had to be up at 8 am to go back to the civil affairs office- where we met Hope yesterday. This is where we complete the Chinese side of the adoption.  We found out on the way there that the nannies would be there. I was a bit distressed- as yesterday had not gone so well w/ them and we were just beginning to make some headway. We got there and the director of the orphanage ( a male) whom she screamed bloody murder for yesterday- tried to hold her- she shook her head no and wrapped her little arms around me. Victory # 1 for mom! Then we spotted the caregivers- all of them w/ cameras- pointed straight at Hope. Her main caregiver was crying again- and then I started. Hope looked at them w/ curiosity, but didn't cry- she waved. Her caregiver ran out of the room crying- so I was a mess too. She was fine- ran around- and we put our fingers in ink, and then swore that we would never hurt or abandon or abuse her- and then she was ours...

After that- her caregivers swarmed her w/ cameras- they obviously loved her alot- and through tears they were smiling that we seemd to love her so much! We had her laughing- and they had her posing w/ her fingers by her head-again- we learned that she was giving the "peace" sign. Now we make her do it all the time and she claps her hands!! We then ventured out to (of all things) a German restaurant. It was such a riot- a beautiful place- with great food! I had spaghetti- and hope ate this pork thing, and just about everything else at the table. Darrin's food was the funniest thing ever- just check out the pics! And look at the size of the Beer he ordered (by mistake-he says!)

We were amused by Hope's eating, at first, and then she almost got compulsive- like everything had to be on her plate- and she was shoveling it in her mouth as if she would never eat again- so our amusement turned to tears. Darrin and I sat at the table and cried, watching our daughter.

Our princess now naps.....tuckered out after a big meal. It is 2:07 pm. We don't know what the evening holds- we're taking our cues from Shi Shi. I forgot to tell you- that is what they called her- so we have been for now too! They also said that she was potty trained- we have had diapers on her- and she doesn't seem potty trained at all!

She is beautiful, perfect in every way imaginable- and we could not be more grateful that somehow, somewhere we were chosen to be her mom and dad. To quote another adoptive mother: "In our lives, we were the one's with the special need, and Hope is the one that filled it."

There are pictures following- I have alot- so I think that there will be a seperate page #2 w/  more pics- be sure to check out both!

 

 

gotta make sure that I have Honey nut cheerios to go!!
Her peace signs!
official fingerprints!
Hope's caregivers
Her main caregiver and orphanage director
caregivers taking pictures of Hope!
More pics
pretty face!
Sign outside civil affairs office
Be sure to check out photos page #2- for more!!